Meet Jacqui, a courageous woman in her 50s who embarked on a transformative journey to break free from the cycle of cigarette smoking. Jacqui discovered that her challenges with saying no and finding comfort in a cigarette were deeply rooted in her childhood conditioning. One striking example was when Jacqui’s work called her on her day off, asking her to fill in. Despite having wonderful plans for her day off, Jacqui felt unable to say no and agreed to work. However, once she hung up the phone, anger overwhelmed her, and she sought solace in the comforting embrace of a cigarette.
This pattern extended to her relationships with her mother and her husband, where she struggled to assert herself and often found herself turning to cigarettes as a coping mechanism. Together, we delved into the emotions and sensations tied to anger, using them as a springboard to explore Jacqui’s past experiences. Through this introspective journey, Jacqui uncovered a common thread—since a young age, she had been conditioned to believe that speaking her mind or having a voice was not acceptable. She was dominated and taught to comply with others’ wishes, leaving her feeling unheard and unseen.
Cigarettes became her refuge, offering a sense of comfort and nurturance in the absence of true emotional support. Through our therapeutic process, we lovingly resolved the internal discomfort Jacqui had carried for so long. Jacqui experienced profound healing as she received unconditional love, safety, and support. As a result, her body’s ability to self-regulate improved, and the faulty car alarm of fight-flight responses began to quiet down. Jacqui now enjoys more moments of calm and relaxation, free from the constant turmoil that once drove her to smoke.
In addition to emotional healing, Jacqui embarked on a journey of self-discovery and personal growth. She learned about the importance of setting boundaries and listening to her body’s wisdom, aligning her actions with what feels right for her. With newfound confidence, Jacqui noticed a significant shift in her behaviour. She became better at standing up for herself, asserting her needs, and cultivating a deep sense of self-worth. Jacqui’s journey is a testament to the power of self-reflection, healing, and personal transformation. Her resilience and commitment to her well-being have paved the way for lasting change. If you resonate with Jacqui’s story, know that you are not alone. We are here to support you on your own journey towards emotional freedom and empowered living.
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